An Invitation to Pause, and Rethink Life.

We spend many years educating ourselves for a career. What about investing time to learn to be a better spouse or parent for our family? Our greatest desire is to see families in Malaysia thrive. Here, you will find real stories, engaging workshops, and a humble little community to grow with.


Strengthening your relationship as husband and wife

Connecting Through Conversations: An Oasis Virtual Session with Veron Soong

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While everyone might give and receive love differently, one thing that definitely builds a stronger marriage is having deep and meaningful conversations with each other. Being fully loved, starts by…

What Four Years of Marriage Helped Me Understand

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My husband and I just celebrated four years of marriage. We had a simple home-cooked meal where we talked about what we’ve learned about marriage and if the meat on…

RED FLAGS in your Marriage: Making a Choice to Nip Them at the Bud

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As a follow-up from my recent live talk about Before the Breaking Point: Top Three Issues to Look Out For in Marriage , I am going to elaborate further on…

Goodbye Functional-only Marriage, Hello Intimacy! by Luisa Yeng

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“What’s for lunch?” “Have the kids eaten?” “Have you taken the rubbish out?” Here are the kind of conversations that commonly take place in every household between husbands and wives.…


Raising children of character

Anger: An Indication of Other Emotions in Parenting

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Motherhood unleashed within me raw and powerful emotions that frightened me. I never knew I could feel such rage come from within me, emotions that I couldn't control. I have…

When Little Children Have Big Emotions

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When our little kids react emotionally to certain situations, it's quite common to hear adults denying their feelings. Child: "Mummy, I don't want to go to school! It is boring!"…

Making Perspective Shifts

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In my short 8 years as a mother, I have realised a few perspective shifts that have made this parenting journey more joyful. These mindset shifts have transformed the way…


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"Mummy, please play with me!" Those pleads happen everyday - it usually starts out in a sweet manner, a simple invitation to connect... but when she doesn't get an answer,…