An Invitation to Pause, and Rethink Life.

We spend many years educating ourselves for a career. What about investing time to learn to be a better spouse or parent for our family? Our greatest desire is to see families in Malaysia thrive. Here, you will find real stories, engaging workshops, and a humble little community to grow with.

Marriage

Strengthening your relationship as husband and wife

Fighting Well, Forgiving Well

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I recently had an explosive fight with my husband. It doesn’t happen often, but when it does it never feels good. I end up saying the most ridiculous things sometimes.…

How to Make it to Your Future Wedding Anniversary and More, by Luisa Yeng

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Ever realised it’s getting rarer to find a happily married couple celebrating their 15th, 20th or even 25th anniversary together? According to the Malaysia Statistics of Marriage and Divorce, many…

The 5 Blind Spots in Communication by Veron Soong

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In March, I shared about how to Connect (with our husbands) through Conversations. However, I would like to take this “conversation” a little deeper. Words are not things – they are…

Connecting Through Conversations: An Oasis Virtual Session with Veron Soong

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While everyone might give and receive love differently, one thing that definitely builds a stronger marriage is having deep and meaningful conversations with each other. Being fully loved, starts by…

Parenting

Raising children of character

Managing Your Child’s Anger

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It was simmering, and then out of nowhere, an eruption explodes. You didn't expect how fierce your sweet child could be. Screaming, biting, shouting hurtful words... it hits you like…

Anger: An Indication of Other Emotions in Parenting

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Motherhood unleashed within me raw and powerful emotions that frightened me. I never knew I could feel such rage come from within me, emotions that I couldn't control. I have…

When Little Children Have Big Emotions

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When our little kids react emotionally to certain situations, it's quite common to hear adults denying their feelings. Child: "Mummy, I don't want to go to school! It is boring!"…

Making Perspective Shifts

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In my short 8 years as a mother, I have realised a few perspective shifts that have made this parenting journey more joyful. These mindset shifts have transformed the way…